Boys, you are on the move!
It’s Labor Day weekend and you have been busy. Saturday brought three face plants for you, Finn, as you took a few attempts at crawling. Luca, you had something between an army crawl and a tripod crawl with one knee-to-leg extension to scoot you down the hall. This has been [...]
A New York Times op-ed this weekend, “How to Lick a Slug”, serves as inspiration and motivation that the little steps I’m taking to get our twins outside early, is building a habit for myself and our family to always seek rejuvenation and wonder from the natural world.
Living in northern Nevada, we’re fond of citing [...]
Wednesday night’s homecoming for our first preemie twin went off without a hitch. With planning reminiscent of the invasion of Normandy, a major consideration was how best to introduce our Aussie Heeler dog to her new housemate.
The introduction started the day our twins boys were born. Returning home from the hospital, I brought the two [...]
We made it. Feed number three for the evening. Some snap shots from earlier…
“If we come in and find you guys sleeping with the baby in the bed with you, yeah, we pretty much take the kid back” – our nurse giving us an idea of the bottom of the preemie graduation test bell curve.
“Only [...]
Two down, one to go.
One bright side of the NICU has started to emerge. Our preemie twin is like a swiss clock. Sleeping in his crib beside us, we awoke to Luca’s squirms about ten minutes before my alarm was set to go off. We turned on the lights, changed a diaper and got him [...]
“Guess what?” Lisa asked from the other end of the phone call. “When you get home from work tonight, pack your bag, we’re rooming in!”
Like the runner who turns the last corner and spots the finish line, in disbelief from fatigue but with a side helping of euphoria, it was the call I’d waited weeks [...]
One of our doctors in the NICU is someone we particularly enjoy. Brilliant (as they all are in our group of neonatologists,) slightly mercurial, and always ready with a folksy story to impart some nugget of wisdom about parenting.
Maybe it’s that I’m a new mom or maybe I’ve just become more mindful of taking care of myself but just a few days ago I decided to break my usual holiday promise to myself regarding New Year’s resolutions. That is, to not make any resolutions. I have a tendency to undermine my own intentions [...]
Over the past four weeks in the NICU, it’s been fascinating watching our relationship with this hospital unit change. Soon after the birth of our twin boys (9 weeks early, planned c-section), I was walking briskly down the hall following a parade of respiratory therapists, a neonatal doctor, nurses and isolettes (with boys inside) to the inner sanctum of our local hopital’s Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU.) The education of this place’s strange customs began immediately- stopped from instinctively following my boys, I was kindly given a lesson in “scrubbing up”- cracking open an iodine brush pack, rolling up my sleeves at the sink, and then scrubbing vigorously for 2 minutes to sanitize myself as much as possible.
Soon after our identical twin boys were born, the enormity of their plight in the NICU as preemies hit me with full force. After one particular evening vigil with the boys, I was up late processing the fact that: 1) my wife and I had two little adorable babies that we loved intensely, and 2) they were in the hospital NICU with tubes and wires attached to them- leaving us feeling completely helpless.
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Twin Dreams
Posted on January 20th, 2009
The Cycle Continues: a Letter from Grandpa
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